Most of the parents get irritated and frustrated when they feel there is a lack of communication between them and their teens. It is not an easy thing to handle the teenage people it is one of the difficult tasks of ever you faced.
Generally, the parents used to warn them in their teen this is because to keep them safe and aware but this will the one of the major thing that makes they feel irritated and they start to hide the things from their parents. At the same time, to protect their parents try to open up them in several ways.
Why it is hard to communicate with teens?
There are several reasons that your teen might not talk to you and almost these are the thing why they not talking to you. When parents start to talk the teen might think in the following ways;
- My parents are overreacting
- How they can imagine my life
- When I get my phone back
- How could I mention about the taboo subjects?
- What could the possible consequences be faced if forget the homework
- They always want me to go to sleep
These may be one of the reasons why your teen doesn’t talk with you.
Ways to connect to your teen
It is little difficult to talk to a teenager that doesn’t want to talk but these things may help you in connecting with your teen again;
It may anything time is everything. When you are in a struggle you have to wait until your time comes. Take a step back and notice your teen gets to know more about them. Make use of the right time to keep the open talk with your teen effectively.
Not to take personally
Suppose your conversion does not take you close to your teen; you should not take it personally. When you take these things personally it will create anger on your teen inside it is not good for your relationship, wait for the right time.
Let them take a lead
Try to give them a chance and let them take the lead. When you are talking to your teen there you need some extra-patience to handle them smoothly. This will surely help them to keep the open-talk and in this way, they start to talk with you. This is one of the great ways which gives a positive result.
In this way you can get your teenager to talk to you and keep them space and try to maintain a friendly relationship with them surely they will respect you.